Hey guys, it's CG.
So before we even get into this topic, we're already presupposing a few things:
- you can even get married
- that you should get married
But even if neither of these things apply to you, it's still an interesting subject to discuss since practically no one is talking about it in realistic terms. You have people telling you that your wife can't be x amount of years younger than you, and idealistic people telling you that you shouldn't marry anyone but an 18yo unvaccinated (Covid vax feels like it was a decade ago) virgin girl.
We likely all agree that the purpose of marriage is procreation and a lifelong commitment, so how does the age of your wife play into that?
Let's just rule out women dating women starting at 29 years old (assuming a one-year dating period) since the concept of starting a family with a woman over 30 is quite frankly ridiculous. Maybe there are some women out there who can pull it off, but it would not be fair of anyone to expect his 30+ year old wife to pop out more than one kid, if even that. Not very trad if you ask me.
Assuming that you want at least one kid, you really shouldn't be dating a woman over 28.
Then there's the matter of ensuring the marriage remains a lifelong commitment which is already hard enough given the legal system, and made a hundred times harder by the fact that there are almost no virgins left.
A woman in her late 20s likely has a double-digit body count. But at the same time, a woman in her late teens probably has at least five. Marrying a non-virgin is the norm, but as evidenced by the state of soyciety, it's clearly not working out.
There is no argument, aside from settling, for marrying a girl with a body count. I don't see a point in distinguishing between a girl whose taken two penises or ten to be honest. If there is a point I'm not really interested in it. The laws are already against you so just complicating it by marrying a girl with pair-bonding issues from sex is retarded. But if you have to do it for whatever reason, don't expect it to last very long.
In every case, marrying a virgin or a woman who's only been with you is ideal.
Getting back to the age stuff with the 27-28 year old limit in mind, let's assume that you're very concerned about marrying a woman your age. I think "woman your age" would be fair to define as a woman no more than five years younger than you. Stretching the definition any further is frankly ridiculous.
If you are a believer in this and have agreed with me up to this point, you have until you're 33-34 to get married and can expect 1-2 kids from your 28-29yo wife.
So given a choice between a 26yo virgin, and a 16yo with a body count, the 26yo would be the better wife option. Both could give you at least 3 kids which I think is enough for most people. Obviously we all have our women preferences, and no honest man would say the 26yo is hotter, but wives don't need to be hot.
Sex is only two minutes of your day once every few weeks anyway so who cares.
Aside from that one particular situation which I doubt has ever actually played out in real life, you might want to marry a girl your age for pragmatic reasons.
If you're an average man rapidly approaching 30 with no prospects of getting rich anytime soon and marriage is a huge priority for you, dating women who are 24-28 is probably your only option for finding a wife. I have no idea if there are any women who are still virgins that late into life, but I also doubt there's many at 18.
Getting an 18yo is almost impossible. Your chance for that was when you yourself were 18, but to be fair, that girl you had a crush on was probably getting ran through while skipping class anyway. So maybe you never had a chance with her to begin with.
If you're even older than that with no prospects, dying alone is a way better option than scooping up some old woman to die with.
For me, getting married is not even a remote priority. I haven't attempted any sort of dating in years. Nothing about what the whole arrangement has become is appealing to me aside from having kids, but everything else just looks miserable. You literally have 0 control over you wife and kids unless you're a master manipulator. I'm an incel with no social skills, so I have no idea how I'd ever be able to manipulate, in a positive way, anyone.
But if marriage is a priority for you, there's a huge chance you're going to have to cuck on her age.
I think you guys should all get [legal-age] virgin wives but I'm not the one running society. Ideally, we'd all have been married before 20 and the Tiny Hats would be long gone.
But that didn't happen. It's over.
So aside from being pragmatic as it relates to your own situation and life goals, I don't see any issue with a man marrying a woman who's x number of years younger than him. If you're 40 and can somehow get an 18yo virgin wife you should do it, but she'll probably leave you anyway if we're being honest, so maybe don't do it.
Dying alone is ok.
You were born alone.
You will see God alone.
All the depressing stuff aside, there's always the Tulpa gf option.
