I get it. Life sucks. You’re going to die alone. You’re poor. No one can tell you how to find a wife. Your wife will divorce-rape you if you find one.
It’s all over.
But maybe it’s not.
I often get asked “CG, you’re an incel like me but you’re so whitepilled all the time, how do you do it?” Honestly it’s not that complicated. Your mind and body are way less complex that you think they are, and the solutions to most things you’re feeling are insanely simple. A good example is that nighttime feeling of emptiness mixed with subtle anxiety. You can lay there and think in circles until 2am and get nowhere. What I do is just load up one of those “anxiety reducing music, 4K 10hr loop” and my brain resets to a normal state.
If I have a lot of time on my hands but don’t want to be productive I get on my treadmill and listen to ai President content, Star Wars fan fictions, AF replays, or educational videos.
Clears up the incel mindfog in like 30 minutes.
I can then use that mental energy on stuff that matters, like building something cool in Minecraft, working on music, or sone cringey creative writing. It really doesn’t matter if what you spend your creative energy on is profitable, or even good, so long as you’re creating something. Life without creation is nothing. This is just something God put within us. Ideally, you’d be able to create children in addition to whatever else you’re creating, but that may never be an option for most of us.
As for women, the thing you’re all waiting for, you really just have to accept everything Nick says about them in conjunction with everything he says about sex and internalize it.
Once you fully get rid of your conscious and shameless desire to have sex with a woman that’s not your wife, there’s just the emotional stuff to get over. The only way I know of to get over intense emotional attachment to women is for you to get rejected, and break up with a woman. I’ll never advise anyone to have sex with a woman that isn’t your wife, and gaining these experiences is separate from sex. My most emotionally painful breakup / rejection didn’t involve any sort of sexual contact and happened way after high school.
The last one happened about a year after I got into Nick btw.
As for the whole politics thing, I’ve sort of accepted that there’s not really much we can do. We just don’t have a population capable of fixing anything at the moment. Society stops working when you don’t have a steady supply of virgins to marry. I’d bet a huge part of the current divorce-rape pandemic has more to do with the average wife not being a virgin at / a bit before marriage than anything else. The collapse of the female virgin population is really the biggest problem we have rn tbh. The solution is of course to get men to stop marrying whores, but that’s as impossible of a task as stopping women from getting ran through in highschool.
Maybe life sucks but there’s no need to make it worse by getting married to one of these women.
Become a gamer. Write fiction. Make bad music. Workout. But above all that, try to keep your friends.
